From my perspective, the idea that trying to have a baby should be fun is ridiculous. When you are two or three months into the process – sure - but after a year? Fun sex feels like a lifetime ago. Don’t get me wrong, I find my husband very sexy, but lately the fun aspect of sex has been eclipsed by fear, anxiety, and sadness. After learning more about our diagnosis I’m starting to come to terms with the idea that for us conception will probably have nothing to do with sex. Maybe once that sinks in we can have fun again.